Designing Pleasure

Inside the Three Rooms of Intimacy, Sensuality, and Sexuality
Intimacy, Sensuality and Sexuality are like three interconnected rooms of pleasure. Pleasure shapes how we connect, heal, love, and live—yet most of us have never been given a blueprint to understand it.
Men

Start

October
25
2027

End

October
29
2027
4:00 pm -
  12:00 pm
Pacific Time
Big Bear, San Bernardino,
CA
USA
4.5 days includes food and lodging

What's Possible

  • Wouldn't you love to take the mystery out of creating the intimacy you truly desire!
  • Fill your toolbox with practical, fun tools for enriching your erotic intimate life!
  • Explore a powerful framework that will re-map your pleasure landscape forever.

What to Expect

  • Participants can expect a well-guided creative, fun journey connecting intimacy, sensuality and sexuality.
  • Expect to be partnered with many participants in sensual meditations. Perhaps you will meet the new love of your life?
  • By the end of this intensive, you'll leave with new vision of your pleasure that will give you a new roadmap for your erotic life. Definitely, a red pill experience!
"Exploring the three rooms while connecting with others has helped me process where I am in my journey, how I got here and how to move forward. "

Details

Prerequisite(s): No CBE necessary. Enrollment is contingent on a conversation with the facilitator or coordinator.
Delivery: 4.5 days includes food and lodging
Oct 25, 2027  
- Oct 29, 2027
4:00 pm
  - 12:00 pm
Time Zone: Pacific Time
Costs (in USD)
$2,199 Regular Tuition
$2,099 Members Tuition
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$750 Workshop Deposit
(Lodging and all meals included.)
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Description

🌶️🌶️Medium Spiciness (clothed in-person events that may include touch and clothing-optional virtual events)

This workshop is for cisgender men and non-binary people AMAB (assigned male at birth). Please contact us if you have questions about which workshop is right for you.

Designing Pleasure is a groundbreaking workshop that helps us see, define and communicate our pleasure in a life-changing way. It does this by transforming a very personal part of us that is amorphous and abstract into something visual, easily understandable and shareable with others.

In this workshop, we tell our life stories in the Three Rooms of Pleasure, from birth through our erotic awakening and life experiences. We visualize our openness to pleasure, our resilience around our past injuries and our hopes for the future. We use the Three Rooms to understand our relationships and in the process, we gather a wealth of new tools to help us create new pathways to the embodied pleasures we have always desired.

Intimacy, Sensuality and Sexuality are the three rooms, each with their own separate entrances with interconnected passageways. We will move from one pleasure to another and build a real bridge that connects them.

  • In the intimacy room, we arrive fully into an embodied state of present moment awareness and the blissful communion we all desire.
  • In the sexuality room, following our arousal, our Life Force Energy rises. Engaging our genitals, we build its fire with rhythm and desire. Reaching to a the higher frequencies of ecstasy, orgasm and ultimately, freedom.
  • The sensuality room bridges the rooms with somatic, sensual meditations and Tantric experimentation. We dive again and again into sensual pleasures with guided explorations of breath, sound, touch, movement and stillness.

At the end of this workshop, this conceptual blueprint is forever established in our awareness. Participants come away with a new understanding of themselves and their pleasure that is nothing short of life-changing.

Ask your coordinator if there is a promo code or discount available to you. Contact Lui at lui@bodyelectric.org.

This workshop will take place on the traditional and ancestral lands of the Serrano and Cahuilla peoples.

Facilitator(s)

Lui Gervais is a dancer, writer and ritual artist. Lui weaves together his life-long exploration of movement, improvisation, somatic education and Neo-Tantric study in his workshops. He is a faculty member of the Body Electric School. Lui offers a sacred intimacy practice in the Pacific Northwest and is the founder of the Embodied Institute, producing creative, somatic workshops at festivals and retreats around the world. He is the author of The Nipple Whisperer and Other Erotic Epiphanies available on Amazon. Subscribe to his writing and teaching at embodiedinstitute.com.

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