Tending Your Loins

Practices for Embodied Porn Watching: If you have been using porn the same way for the last ten years, perhaps you owe it to yourself and your lovers to learn embodied porn watching.
This workshop is for everyone—all bodies and expressions.
All Genders

Start

November
1
2025

End

November
22
2025
1:00 pm -
  3:00 pm
Eastern Time
Online
4-week workshop on Saturdays,
beginning November 1

What's Possible

  • Join other Body Electric folk committed to fully experiencing and enjoying the bodily sensations of sexual arousal.
  • Discover how your usual patterns of sexual arousal limit your experience and explore new possibilities.
  • To transform our porn watching, we need to change our nervous system through regular embodied practice. This is how we shape our sexual future.

What to Expect

  • Join a practice-based community, reflecting together on their embodied porn watching practices.
  • The healthy porn watching practices you will explore were developed by professional Sexological Bodyworkers as a way for individuals to enjoy the pleasures and benefits of embodiment while masturbating to porn.
  • Some erotic practices might feel awkward or challenging at first. Don't stop. These are the moments when the practice changes us.
"'Tending Your Loins' taught me new ways to use my arousal. Who knew porn could be a mindfulness practice?"

Details

Prerequisite(s): None
Delivery: 4-week workshop on Saturdays,
beginning November 1
Nov 1, 2025  
- Nov 22, 2025
1:00 pm
  - 3:00 pm
Time Zone: Eastern Time
Costs (in USD)
$259 Regular Tuition
$219 Early Registration (thru Oct 1)
$199 Community and Body Members
$189 Heart Members
Fully refundable within
24 hours of registration.
Policies
Scholarships are available for this workshop. Click here for more info.

Description

🌶️🌶️ = Medium Spiciness (clothed in-person events that may include touch and clothing-optional virtual events)

Does this event spark your curiosity? If you have questions or specific needs, please contact Ben at registrar@bodyelectric.org.

This practice-based course on embodied porn watching invites you into an erotic learning process that will help you to enliven your body, open your heart, and explore full-bodied orgasmic states.

Millions of people worldwide use porn to make sexual arousal quick, efficient, and effortless. Much of the time, however, porn captures so much of our attention that we forget to feel and enjoy the sensations of our own body. This course is about shifting that pattern.

Tending Your Loins teaches embodiment practices (movement, breath, touch, and focused attention) to support you in fully feeling and savoring the pleasures of your sensuous body as you masturbate to porn. During the class and for two months afterwards, participants will have access to more than two dozen video demonstrations of the Tending Your Loins practices.

One such practice is Hands-Free Arousal, which invites you to explore new ways of stimulating yourself, beyond the habitual hands-on-genitals routines you may have developed during puberty. For this practice, penis-owners will need a Fleshlight (perhaps with a shower mount) and vulva-owners will need a Hitachi Magic Wand (or similar device).

None of these practices are not meant to replace your familiar ways of pleasuring yourself. Instead, they offer new pathways for exploration, helping you make optimal use of the arousal you generate through porn. While designed for people who enjoy watching porn, the practices you’ll learn in Tending Your Loins can deepen your solo erotic practice with or without porn. Join us for this exploration and change the way you play with yourself.

Facilitator(s)

Joseph Kramer PhD is a somatic sex educator, founder of the Body Electric School, and the Sexological Bodywork profession. His websites—Eroticmassage.com and Orgasmicyoga.com—offer more than 100 hours of video teaching erotic touch and breathing. He is committed to helping people wake up to the joy of life in a body.

Other Workshops

This is only for existing accounts.
Join our sex-positive community, and amp up your erotic life (and your inbox) with our weekly email. Workshops, updates, a $100 off promo code, and more. Side-effects may include: increased sexiness, peak pleasure and performance, and a magnetic and zen-like demeanor.

Subscribe

* indicates required
/( mm / dd )
Program Interests
Please select from below:
Existing accounts please sign in first. After that come back to this window and continue to Register.
First time registration or if you already logged in.
This website uses cookies to ensure you get the best experience on our website. Learn more